Introduction
This section sets the scene for the subsequent sections by
providing background information about multiples in general
and introducing some of the problems families can face before
or at the arrival of multiples.
"I could not believe the teacher. She started by
asking if Rebecca and Daniel were identical twins! When I
said they were born at 36 weeks and she went on about how
early that was, I hardly had the heart to tell her it was
pretty typical for twins. I hope she knows more about teaching
than about twins! Actually we got on pretty well after that."
Not all twins are the same
"The three sets of twins I have taught have all been
vastly different. One set were heavily dependent upon one
another; another pair were very conscious of their unique
position in the class and avoided each other at all costs;
and the pair I have at present are almost oblivious of their
situation. It is important to realise that each set of twins
should be summed up according to their personalities and characteristics
and handled accordingly throughout their stay within a particular
class."
This quotation from a South Australian teacher makes a most
vital point with which to begin to explore this website there
is no such thing as a policy applicable to all twins or higher
multiples. What works well for one family may be totally inappropriate
for the next. Thus such phrases as "twins always compete
with each other" or "in this school we always separate
twins" are not appropriate for today's education which
acknowledges the individuality of each child or in this case
children Several Australian states have recognised that not
all twins are the same by requiring schools NOT to have a
formal policy that is applied to ALL multiple birth families.
Thus decisions about such issues as separation of twins in
school MUST be made on the basis of what is best for that
family and not as a rigid policy or one based upon experiences
with the previous set of multiples in the school.
It is of great concern that so many messages from families
essentially all begin the same way
"In our school the policy with multiples is to
.."
The aim of this website is to introduce a best-practice
model which uses empirical evidence to identify key questions
in deciding what is best for these particular multiples at
this stage of their schooling.
|